CHIMAMANDA NGOZI ADICHIE’S QUOTES

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Chimamanda is a woman I’ve grown to love. Her eloquence, beauty and the content of her brain is simply mind-blowing. I fell in love with Chimamanda when I read her book Purple Hibiscus 9 years ago.

Kambili Achike who was the narrator of the story was so ‘me’. Just like her, I was inhibited and shy until I moved from my environment. Today, I will share with you some of chimamanda’s interesting quotes.

1. “The single story creates stereotypes, and the problem with stereotypes is not that they are untrue, but that they are incomplete. They make one story become the only story.”

2. “Of course I am not worried about intimidating men. The type of man who will be intimidated by me is exactly the type of man I have no interest in.”

3. “If you don’t understand, ask questions. If you’re uncomfortable about asking questions, say you are uncomfortable about asking questions and then ask anyway. It’s easy to tell when a question is coming from a good place. Then listen some more. Sometimes people just want to feel heard. Here’s to possibilities of friendship and connection and understanding.”

4. “Culture does not make people. People make culture. If it is true that the full humanity of women is not our culture, then we can and must make it our culture.”

5. “I recently spoke at a university where a student told me it was such a shame that Nigerian men were physical abusers like the father character in my novel. I told him that I had recently read a novel called American Psycho, and that it was a shame that young Americans were serial murderers.”

6. “We spend too much time teaching girls to worry about what boys think of them. But the reverse is not the case. We don’t teach boys to care about being likable. We spend too much time telling girls that they cannot be angry or aggressive or tough, which is bad enough, but then we turn around and either praise or excuse men for the same reasons. All over the world, there are so many magazine articles and books telling women what to do, how to be and not to be, in order to attract or please men. There are far fewer guides for men about pleasing women.”

7. “…my point is that the only authentic identity for the African is the tribe…I am Nigerian because a white man created Nigeria and gave me that identity. I am black because the white man constructed black to be as different as possible from his white. But I was Igbo before the white man came.”

8. “Relaxing your hair is like being in prison. You’re caged in. Your hair rules you. You didn’t go running with Curt today because you don’t want to sweat out this straightness. You’re always battling to make your hair do what it wasn’t meant to do.”

Photo credits: Google images

Reference: Goodreads.

Chioma Schmitz

Chioma Schmitz is the author of MY FORAY INTO THE DARK KINGDOM which is available on Amazon   https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0773XNM23Chioma worked as a system engineer in a multinational company for 5 years before launching her brand which focuses mainly on hair, lifestyle and beauty. She recently launched her magic hair growth spritz which is highly organic and very affordable and she wears her natural hair with pride! She's married to a wonderful German gentleman and they are blessed with children! She can be reached on chiomaschmitz@gmail.com

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About Chioma Schmitz

Chioma Schmitz is the author of MY FORAY INTO THE DARK KINGDOM which is available on Amazon   https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0773XNM23Chioma worked as a system engineer in a multinational company for 5 years before launching her brand which focuses mainly on hair, lifestyle and beauty. She recently launched her magic hair growth spritz which is highly organic and very affordable and she wears her natural hair with pride! She's married to a wonderful German gentleman and they are blessed with children! She can be reached on chiomaschmitz@gmail.com

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